“Most things in life are neither good nor bad, right nor wrong. Most things just are.”
– Dr. Tom Graf
What about those times when something is right or wrong?
For most of my career, and basically all of my life, I’ve considered that there were only ten real rules. And any question of right or wrong is pretty simple to tie back to those stone tablet reminders.
Much of the sleep lost — by Difference Makers and folks in general — is caused by trying to impose of measure of rightness or wrongness on something that just simply “is.”
Every now and then, once or twice in a career and maybe a half dozen or so times in a lifetime, we are faced with a matter of far-reaching impact. In those cases, it is easy to go off kilter and tend toward panic, or worry, or fear.
Except for when you just know that you are right.
When any preponderance of the facts — key word there is “any” — indicates a clear “right or wrong” answer, it is incredibly calming to know that we are right. It is incredibly simple to address when we know we are wrong. When wrong, confess. Recant. Make it right, or take the consequences.
When right, lie down. Switch off the light. Sleep well.
Marc Clingaman says
This makes everything in life perfectly foggy and understandable in the most clearly ambiguous non-conforming co formats way possible. I am looking forward to know more about Dr Tom Graf, which I’m predicting will have more than 50 shades of gray.
Marc Clingaman says
This makes everything in life perfectly foggy and understandable in the most clearly ambiguous non-conforming, conforming manner possible. I am looking forward to know more about Dr Tom Graf, which I’m predicting will have more than 50 shades of gray.